In this article I have attempted to show and explain, using scripture, how God’s Road, or way of agapé love leads and guides us in our walk to Christian maturity. I will also attempt to show how his love is all encompassing and is inclusive of His judgement, His justice, His discipline and the things He hates! If we don’t know what He hates, how will we know what to avoid?
On The Agapé Road, and if we are really serious about our commitment to follow Jesus as our Lord and saviour regardless of the mistakes we make along the way, we will encounter with absolute certainty, all aspects of God’s love!
Only those of us that are born again in Christ Jesus are eligible to walk The Agapé Road. The prophet Isaiah describes it as ‘the Way of Holiness.’
Let’s examine together The Agapé Road in respect of God’s all-embracing love in its four main characteristics! His unconditional love, His discipline in love, His Judgement in Love and the antithesis of His love – what He hates!
1: God’s unconditional love – his everlasting love, grace and mercy.
Do you love your brothers and sisters in Christ in this way no matter who they are or what they have done? The love the World tends to display is love that is lustful and of the flesh. It is self-seeking and self-satisfying; in fact it is self-orientated in every way! Quite the exact opposite to the selfless love of God – the love that God expects His Church to display towards each other in Christ Jesus!
As we receive God’s agapē love, so it is our duty as God’s children to show His love to others in all we do as part of our service to Him.
The Apostle Paul says this in 1 Corinthians 14:1 (AMP)
Other bible versions say, ‘follow the way of love and eagerly desire the spiritual gifts.’ Follow the way of love! Yes, indeed, but not just any kind of love, only God’s love which looks like this:
God is love and all that He does is out of love, even His correction, discipline, judgement and what He hates is born out of His perfect agapé love! The Apostle Paul urges us as God’s Church, as His children, to let everything we do be motivated by God’s (agapé) love and if we do not have this kind of love for others then nothing we can do or say will have any kind of true spiritual meaning! We will not be true followers of Christ!
This is the love that brought our salvation to us in Christ Jesus. This is the love that God expects us to have for each other! This is the love that Jesus talks about in Matthew 22:36-40 (AMP):
And if we do not love our Christian family in the way God does, we have a problem! Just have a look at what 1 John 4:20 (AMP) says about this:
Step 2: God’s discipline
Because God is love He disciplines those He loves, those who are His children and have accepted Jesus as their Lord and Saviour and have repented from their sin!
The Bible describes born-again Christians as God’s children, His sons, and daughters and so He disciplines us in love so that we do not go astray and fall into wickedness once again and to bring us back to Him when we do go astray!
So here we see that God’s love involves discipline and, with everything that God does, it is for our benefit!
Now, why does God discipline those that are His?
The answer is quite simple, because His discipline in His love brings out the fruit of peace and righteousness in us which is right standing with God. In other words, it helps us to become more like Jesus and more conformed to the Son’s image!
In the verse above the writer of Hebrews uses the word ‘trained’ by God’s discipline. The Greek word for ‘trained’ here is ‘gumnazó’ (pronounced goom-nad-zo) and refers to the way in which a professional and dedicated athlete trains and is trained.
If I can use this analogy. As born again and Spirit filled Christians, we the Church, are members of God’s team. Jesus is our Captain, and the Holy Spirit is our trainer. Just as an athlete is trained according to the trainer’s rigorous programme which includes personal discipline, so too is the Christian when He is disciplined by God under the coaching of the Holy Spirit to keep us in the will of the Father. In this way we are all trained by the Holy Spirit to become an effective and powerful Spirit filled Church that brings glory, honour and praise to Jesus and light to a dark world!
Step 3: God’s judgement
All men, including born again Christians, are born once to die and once to face judgement. We will all have to stand before God and give an account of ourselves.
Step 4: God’s hate
So, let’s look at God’s hate this way, if God is love then it stands to reason that He would hate anything that is contrary to His love. What is contrary to love? Anything or anyone that is evil and acts contrary to His Word! In this same vein God cannot love evil nor the perpetrators of evil as that would be contrary to His loving nature.
Let’s have a look at what the Psalmist says about God’s relationship with the unrepentant sinner.
Psalm 5 was written by King David (the man after God’s own heart) and in it, David is praying to God and asking for his help against his (David’s) enemies, and he reminds God of who He is! Hence in verses 4 and 5 he says that God does not tolerate wickedness and He hates all those who do evil
So, the statement, “God hates the sin but loves the sinner” is not Biblical. The only sinner that God loves is the repentant sinner who has accepted Jesus Christ as their Lord and Saviour. This is why mankind needs a Saviour – it’s all about Jesus! Jesus is the only name by which mankind can be saved! If God loves the unrepentant sinner, then Jesus died for nothing - there would be no need for a Saviour!
In Proverbs 6 the author, King Solomon, tells us about the things that God hates. There are seven things he mentions that God hates and that are an abomination to Him.
Proverbs 6 Verse 17
1. Pride:
Satan’s pride was his downfall and the reason why he was expelled from heaven.
God opposes the proud and gives abundant grace to the humble!
2. Lying:
One of the titles that the Bible ascribes to Satan is that he is the father of lies. Anybody that lies is not a son of God but the son of the devil!
Do Christians still lie? Yes, I’m afraid we do! Even telling someone you will pray for them, and you don’t, is telling a lie. The Church needs to be very careful in our dealings with each other as well as those outside the Church! It is interesting to note from the above verse that God considers lying to be much the same as committing murder!
We need to pray the words spoken by David in the verse below and include our own lying lips as well when we slip!
3. Shedding innocent blood (Heartless and needless cruelty to others)
Remember the heartless murder by Cain in the Old Testament and Herod in the New Testament.
The account found in Matthew is the fulfilment of a prophecy made by the prophet Jeremiah in chapter 31 and verse 15!
Proverbs 6:18
4. Vicious plotting and scheming – ‘a heart that creates wicked plans.’
The prime example of this Judas Iscariot when the Devil enters him, and he plots and schemes with the Pharisees and other religious leaders to betray Jesus with a kiss on the cheek for thirty pieces of silver! The spirit of Judas is still very much alive to this day – the kiss of the Devil is found in lying lips that plot evil!
Proverbs 6 Verse 19
6. A False Witness and slanderer
Look what happened to Korah and his followers when he made false statements against Moses and slandered him in front of the Israelites. God brought a swift and terrible retribution and judgement upon them! Who is the father of lies? Satan!
7. A divisive person – “a man who stirs up dissension among brothers”
Look how Satan came between God and man in the Garden of Eden by using a snake as his mouthpiece.
Dear Heavenly Father
In the name of Jesus, I pray that you would fill me with your Holy Spirit and help me to live my life in accordance with your will, in accordance with your Spirit and not according to my flesh. Lord, help me to live and walk on the path that you have willed for my life always and in every way! Amen.
Remember: Reading this article is no substitute for reading and studying the Bible for yourself! I am flawed the Bible is not!






